Is restraint an unfashionable virtue?

Surely the answer is yes. http://www.abc.net.au/radionational/programs/theminefield/is-restraint-an-unfashionable-virtue/9774120

Restraint is empathy with your future self

Article in The Atlantic: https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2016/12/self-control-is-just-empathy-with-a-future-you/509726/